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The True Meaning of Thanksgiving Unveiled Through History and Tradition

  • Writer: Kayla Duesler
    Kayla Duesler
  • Nov 27
  • 3 min read

Thanksgiving is a holiday many look forward to each year, filled with family gatherings, delicious food, and a spirit of gratitude. Yet, the true meaning of Thanksgiving goes beyond the turkey and pumpkin pie. It is rooted in a complex history and evolving traditions that reveal much about community, survival, and reflection. Understanding this deeper story helps us appreciate the holiday in a more meaningful way.


Eye-level view of a traditional Thanksgiving feast with turkey and autumn decorations
A traditional Thanksgiving feast with turkey and autumn decorations

The Origins of Thanksgiving


The story most people know begins in 1621, when Pilgrims and Wampanoag Native Americans shared a harvest feast in Plymouth, Massachusetts. This event is often called the "First Thanksgiving." The Pilgrims had endured a harsh first winter, and the Wampanoag helped them survive by teaching them how to grow crops and fish local waters. The feast celebrated the successful harvest and the cooperation between the two groups.


However, this story is more nuanced. The 1621 feast was not initially intended as an annual holiday but rather a single event of gratitude. The relationship between the Pilgrims and Native Americans was complex and later marked by conflict and hardship for Indigenous peoples. Recognizing this history encourages a more honest reflection on the holiday’s origins.


How Thanksgiving Became a National Holiday


Thanksgiving did not become a fixed national holiday until much later. Various colonies and states celebrated days of thanks at different times, often linked to religious observances or marking the end of harvests. It was Sarah Josepha Hale, a writer and editor, who campaigned for a national Thanksgiving Day during the 19th century. She believed a unified holiday could bring Americans together during a time of division.


In 1863, President Abraham Lincoln declared Thanksgiving a national holiday to be celebrated on the final Thursday of November. This decision came during the Civil War, aiming to foster unity and gratitude despite the country’s struggles. Since then, Thanksgiving has evolved into a day for families to gather and express thanks for their blessings.


Traditions That Shape Thanksgiving Today


Many traditions we associate with Thanksgiving developed over time and reflect both historical influences and modern culture. Here are some key traditions and their significance:


  • The Thanksgiving Meal

Turkey became the centerpiece of the meal due to its availability and size, feeding large groups. Side dishes like stuffing, cranberry sauce, and pumpkin pie reflect early American and Native American ingredients.


  • Giving Thanks

The core of Thanksgiving is gratitude. Families often share what they are thankful for before the meal, reinforcing the holiday’s original spirit.


  • Parades and Football

These modern additions started in the 20th century. The Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade began in 1924, showcasing floats and performances. Football games became a Thanksgiving staple, offering entertainment and community bonding.


  • Volunteering and Charity

Many people use Thanksgiving as a time to help those in need, serving meals at shelters or donating food. This practice echoes the holiday’s themes of sharing and community support.


High angle view of a Thanksgiving parade with colorful balloons and crowds
Thanksgiving parade with colorful balloons and crowds

Reflecting on Thanksgiving’s Complex Legacy


Thanksgiving invites us to reflect on history honestly. While it celebrates gratitude and community, it also reminds us of the difficult history faced by Native Americans. Many Indigenous people observe a National Day of Mourning on Thanksgiving, honoring their ancestors and the impact of colonization.


Understanding this complexity does not diminish the holiday but enriches it. It encourages respect for diverse perspectives and a commitment to inclusivity. Celebrating Thanksgiving with awareness can deepen our appreciation for the values of cooperation, survival, and thankfulness.


How to Celebrate Thanksgiving with Meaning


To honor the true meaning of Thanksgiving, consider these thoughtful approaches:


  • Learn and Share History

Explore the stories of both the Pilgrims and Native Americans. Share these with family and friends to foster understanding.


  • Express Genuine Gratitude

Take time to reflect on what you are thankful for beyond material things. Encourage meaningful conversations during the meal.


  • Support Local Communities

Volunteer or donate to organizations helping those in need. Acts of kindness embody the spirit of Thanksgiving.


  • Include Diverse Traditions

Incorporate Native American foods or customs into your celebration to honor their contributions.


Close-up view of a family sharing a Thanksgiving meal with diverse dishes
Family sharing a Thanksgiving meal with diverse dishes

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